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It's over the first question it is to give advice about how to make friends in college in such a big atmosphere
And we're gonna kind of like quickly touch on this because danny see we're talking about this more in her video what?
Yeah, yeah, I feel like good
Kenzie is like friend Central over here, but here's the thing I go to all my look
I take most of my classes online
So most of my college friends actually don't go to the school and I gonna do I mean this is bad
But I just like went to parties and met people
Yeah, I mean, I made one friends
And then we like Ostrow each other and then I I kind of made a lot of friends through her
And I'm still part of a lot of them, but I just like I don't really love that scene
But I really knew that I needed a normal college friends
So I made my stuff like yeah, yeah, okay comfort zone and just like make friends it worked out
It was literally the first night that I tried any work, so my experience was a little different because I was in a sorority
Think you have like 40 instant friends
But it's kind of funny like I actually
Didn't really hang out with girls in my sorority like that much
actually
My like 4 or 5 best friend from my sorority but like after I made those friends like we never really hung out with like
Everyone from her authority like we always hang out with people from like chair trim like intramural volleyball
Whatever it was yeah, that's like once I made those friends. I was kind of like yeah, oh
That's mine. Yeah girl on another. No, actually I've made a lot of friends at church now that I think about that
A lot of friends at church yeah my advice especially for going into your freshman year
So I had like two girls like it from my high school and then I had
Like my roommate and then my other friends roommate
So that was like our media like a little friend group even though almost didn't know each other super well
But it is funny because those like stayed my like best friends all the way through
but
That's not to say like if you don't know people going into college that you're not gonna make great friends and my biggest tip would
Be just like go out like especially the first like week of school. Go around
They're like a bunch of different like clubs are like camps ministries for me putting yourself in situations where?
Like your interests will align and rousseff like the other people there at that makes sense
You know I'm saying then like you're gonna like meet people in a really natural way, so it's kind of a quick one
I guess but what happens if you hate your roommate because I'm afraid I will going into it with out mentality is bad
Yeah
Yeah that too and then also just like don't assume that you're gonna be best friends like always have
You know like create fan groups like outside of that just in case something does go wrong
that same roommate freshman the software and
We like before even going into college sort of like set up expectations for like each other as far as like
Bedtimes like if one person's trying to like go to bed like which was usually mario's but earlier work with me up doing horrid
She would like go to like this like lounge on our floor and like not like Lethal exxon in her room
I don't know I feel like if you like pre communicate like your expectations, then you can avoid a lot of problems and like conflicts
But at the end of the day like when issues Arise
You just need to like have the maturity they like to talk to each other Rahman like as soon as they happen to yeah like
It a lot of things build the more like resentment
There is like at the end of the day if you're like a really really bad through my situation
That's like not repairable like everything like it's just like horrible
You can if you're in a dorm like you can switch roommates. Which is like a
Like I mean not an easy process
But like you always like there is that option so it's not like I like make-or-break situation
I don't all right, but it's temporary yeah
And even if you're not best friends like you have the next year to like move next push it again
Just like some little quick tips is how do you learn to speak up in class when you are shy?
Well, you got that on line one, so I know
I'm not shy at all say like also
Like a good motivation honestly is knowing that especially in small classes like probably like twenty to thirty percent
You're maybe not that high I had classes where it was a high fat percentage of your grade comes from participation
So it's like not failing is it good motivator for speaking up?
I feel like my like freshman year in software is a lot more reserved in classes
And then as you get older
And I think it's also feels like you're in classes with a lot order people so that can be terminating
But um I don't I feel like over like junior and senior year. I really was like completely over that
I feel like that comes both from like
Just I don't know yeah growing up like being a more confident person like not really caring like how you sound in class I guess
And there done that yeah, I I cared so much. I was I would like my
Lord
Pray that I would not get called on like literally in class freshman year would like this one class to stress me out so much
Cuz they're just cold call you and it was always something
I didn't understand because it was like a quick, okay?
Something that helps us actually being prepared so there's this one class that I was obsessed
And loved that class until I was like always on top of my game
Like I was always looking at the questions at the end of the book or like the textbook
So I kind of like knew what they were gonna. Ask him so every time he did ask something. I was like really good
Yeah
They're like actually helps if you are prepared and another thing that helps is if you have a friend in that class
Like it's really nice to have like someone if you do something stupid, you're like. Oh, god my girls
It's something like LOL, and you can laugh about it
It doesn't matter was anything about you like you know
I want to know your as they are no one will be honest like like I remember any answers
I gave in college like all those nervous times like I remember in Joba
How do you manage to balance YouTube and a social life in school all at the same time?
While also maintaining your mental health one a planner is really important
but also as far as the mental health it's like when I wake up I read and write for like the first hour that I'm
A week and so I can't get on my phone. I can't like work. I can't do schoolwork
We can't do anything besides that and I always like yeah, I don't know that like calms me down
It makes me like you know think more about myself, and how like I'm feeling at home living my life
That is made like way more of an impact than I ever thought. It would it is all about like time blocking
It's like really good my manager
I do love that
But I would say like my biggest thing is having friends like also like I love my Youtube friends
And I love and would like come to La and like relate with people
but then also it's really nice to have those friends that are like kind of outside of it where they can put everything back into
Perspective and feel like okay Daniel like yeah
Like you're really stressed out about this video or whatever you need to work on like let's really think about like our life right now
I'm like what really matters
Prioritizing is the most important thing like knowing the things that like and even if these things like change by the day
They're like
Knowing like in a day like what's most important like the things that can like you'll survive if you don't get to do so like
For me schools always like they must support it up until senior year when I was at that kind of deciding that like YouTube is
What I wanted to do full-time when I graduated so like my priorities
Shifted to real like YouTube was my number one cuz up until that point like I wasn't uploading every week
So it's all about like school and like I was making like pretty much all eyes until I seen earlier
And then like that really window cut it to seven my love semester of college
Cause like actually like so fun
I'm not like my peers in here like I'm not applying to grad school like I'm not going to a job you mean
It's important. I don't think don't try but like funny prioritize for me
I like it sounds like the not it sounds like so not smart is like
I made really bad grease in here, but it's like that was the smart thing for mean
I feel like recognizing
Like where your priorities need to be and like at the end of the day like your mental health is what's most important like that
Should be a priority like that shouldn't be the last thing you know and so like don't overwhelm yourself like have like time built in
For like social things that's what relaxes you or like sitting and journaling or like whatever. I don't like it
So how does it by far the most important thing it affects everything about us, but you realize did that mean everyone especially us
How do you deal with leaving your friends and family? I'm super close to my parents
I'm scared that leaving and was going to tear me to pieces
Were you sad and how do I avoid crying a tunnel moving day wait stop?
I
Moved from Texas to La when I was 17
My parents were divorced so like I grew up really used to not seeing them all the time
And then I don't know I was just like I
honestly
May have been more independent of something that I am now realize my god as far as like friends and family like I've been gone
For two years and I still would I go home with I talked to my hometown friends all the time
There's still like a really big part to my life
Just because you're moving because when you're gonna lose that sometimes you do, but like like that's not it. That's normal
I just like have it you know uh I had a good point. I remember away
It's so different for everyone and my relationship with my parents got so much better your website moved away
Yes, so there's there's I figure is that and I think you'd be surprised at how many times during the day
They're gonna be able to connect with them like also. There's so many ways now like
facetime like I would always call my mom on the way to class so he
Probably spoke like two or three times a day just cuz my walk from like my apartment to campus was so long eventually
Catch up or call your high school friends
And so it's just like forcing yourself like when you're in the car or on the bus or whatever
Just give them a quick call and like kind of give them a little like update
I feel like that really helped me. You know like I didn't talk to my parents every day and again
I just feel like generally a Malecha homesick
Yeah, and like I don't know I like them
I mean there are gonna be times for sure and you like miss your family like that's okay and like they're always a phone call
away the final question is
What is life like after college actually got like the majority of questions are about like?
navigating
post-Grad life that is something like especially as you're getting towards like junior and senior year that I feel like is on people's minds cuz
you're starting to like actually have to think about like jobs and stuff, so
Kenzie is still in school, giada. I'm Sandy
Help you might watch out of school and Danny has been out for two years. She just learned she's 24. She's out
She was 23, bro
You're like. How is that possible? I also don't know so I feel like Danny can contribute the most. Yeah, it's really hard
It's like almost going into like I remember going to college
I was so nervous and like making new friends and like figure out what I want to do with my life
It's like all over again almost
Except you have the resources to do so like you know what you need to do
And then it's almost like you just you're so independent that you have to like make things happen in College
I was just like all. They're like you're gonna
Go home and live with your friends
and you're gonna go to class it with your friends if you have all these events all the time and then out sky outside of
School it's like no like it's afford like you schedule those things and kind of make them happen
You know and then also like as far as like career goes. It's just like randomly reaching out to people
I mean like hey
Let's go grab coffee and like just like see where those relationships can take you like with your exact or anyone
Networking like you have to force yourself to do that because you never know like there's so many opportunities. I've had
Because I'd like just put myself out there even though. It's like really uncomfortable for me. I feel like for you
All are really good at that, but if you're deep like always really uncomfortable, so you can I just have to like Force yourself
it's full time so it's like different than like the situation that like most of you guys are probably in or that like all my
Friends from College like you've graduated Independent, and so I've seen like to like both sides of like Post-grad life
I guess all my friends got jobs
But like the ones who like really love what they're doing than ones that like
Maybe like the job seemed great like turned out to be a little like less great
Or maybe they just like had to go with an opportunity that like they didn't fully love it's awesome
Feel like I'd be like for the other situation
It's like again kind of like the roommate advice like knowing that it's temporary and knowing that like I feel like people need to be
More realistic about like the first job you get out of college just not to be your dream job
And I feel like that's like the biggest thing I've like observed from like my friends experiences
So I feel like just being realistic and knowing like this is literally her first job, and it's not that in the world
It's probably gonna pay badly and like you may not love it, but like you have to leave work your way up
And that's just like the reality of post-grad life, so I feel like a lot of people
They're just always it's always like the next thing you know it's almost like I think you almost have the finally contentment in
your life like outside your career you realize your job is everything and like make time for social stuff and
It's what I don't know maybe too much time
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